Box 45 clarification

Employee has spouse and children. Employer offers package to eligible staff and the spouse and dependents so I know to use code 3 in that case. My coworker tells me that if the staff is single, we need to use code 2. I say that their actual marital status makes no difference as well as whether they have children or not. The reporting is more about who could join the plan we offer and what kind of plan it is. 

Can anyone else weigh in on this?